Catch Him Glancing

Find out whether that guy who is always staring at you is really flirting with you or if it's just a coincidence that your eyes keep meeting. That fleeting moment where your eyes cross may or may not be a sign that he is trying to send you a message. He may be aware of this message or it may be subconscious. Find out the details through this article!

Teenage girls always want to know whether that guy they saw glancing over is interested in them or just stretching their neck. It's an important question because if a glance means that a guy is flirting with you, then you need to react to this attention differently. Maybe he is not interested, or maybe he's just too shy to make a bold move like walking over to you and asking you out. But how do you know?

The first thing you need to know to find out whether the boy in question is actually flirting or not, is what kind of a glance it was. Was it a quick glance? Did he do it multiple times? Does he do it to other girls too? If he seems to only look over at you and not in other directions and he seems to do it often then this might be his way of showing interest. So how do you know if this is his way of flirting? You could try doing the same thing to him! Something weird happens when you immitate someone else's behavior, they tend to think of you as being more similar to themselves and they then form a stronger bond with you. So if you want to see if he likes you and if he is trying to flirt with you, you might try glancing over at him too. Remember not to make it a long brooding stare, you just want to let him know that you know he is looking at you.

If he immediately stops glancing over at you, then you should stop too. It either means that he realized he was checking you out and it scares him to think that you know that. Or that maybe he wasn't interested in the flirst place and he just got a bit weirded out by seeing you glancing over at him too. Just relax, if this guy is not flirting with you there is nothing to worry about. It doesn't mean that he doesn't think you're pretty or cool, it just means that he is not interested in you at the moment. There will be more guys glancing in your direction soon enough, so take it easy and get back to paying attention in class.

If the two of you have been doing the glancing flirting thing for awhile now, you might want to think of where this is going. If neither you or the guy in question wants to make the first move then all this will be is a staring competition with giggles and blushes. So if you like this guy, and you've gotten a clear signal that he likes you too, then make the first move. Take the plunge and get up and walk over to him and ask him how he is doing. Introduce yourself or talk about homework, whatever makes sense for the two of you. Don't mention the staring, it should be an unspoken flirting method.

From this point on, you will want to use different flirting methods and make sure that your message is very clear. Once you know that you want to continue with the flirting, you will want to have a conversation with this new boy of yours and understand what the two of you are expecting out of a relationship. Now that the both of you have been hooked onto each other, it's time for you to discuss your plans. Don't think that it's a big scary thought, you just need to take the glancing further into a conversation. Good luck!